Edward M. Lane

Edward M. Lane “Pop”

May 6, 1945 – June 5, 2025

80 years blessed

Edward M. Lane, lovingly known as “Pop,” passed away peacefully on June 5, 2025, at the age of 80, surrounded by the love of his family. A proud resident of Ronkonkoma, NY, Pop lived a full life marked by dedication, service, humor, and heart.

Born on May 6, 1945, Edward was a man of simple values and steadfast commitment. He often joked that he only ever had two jobs in life—serving his country as a Vietnam soldier, and later as a hardworking Plumber Steamfitter at Pilgrim State Hospital. And he wore both titles with pride and purpose.

Pop was married to the love of his life, Joyce Lane, for 54 wonderful years. Together, they built a home filled with warmth, laughter, and unconditional love. He was the proud father of three children—Edward Lane and his wife Stephanie, Kim Caracciola and her husband Carmine, and James Lane and his wife Kerry. Nothing lit up his world more than being “Pop” to his six grandchildren: Ryan, Madison, Dominick, Gio, Donovan, and Rocco. He also leaves behind his brother Fred Lane and sister-in-law Louise.

He was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Edward and Veronica Lane, and his dear sister Mary.

Pop had a heart for people. Whether he was raising pigeons, tending to his hostas, or sitting at the table with a deck of cards, he found joy in simple pleasures—and even more in sharing them with others. He never missed a chance to strike up a conversation or lend a hand. If you were lucky enough to know him, you knew his stories, his jokes, and the way he made you feel like family.

Above all else, his greatest love in life was his family. They were his pride, his purpose, and his everything.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Edward’s memory to Make-A-Wish Foundation or Angela’s House, two causes close to the hearts of those he loved.