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Patricia Hanley
Date of Death: May 26, 2015
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Died: May 26th, 2015 Services: None Visitation: None Obituary: Hanley, Patricia (nee Tulipan) of Port Jefferson Station, NY on May 26, 2015 in her 62nd year. Devoted mom of Carissa Hanley and Sean Hanley. Cherished grandmother of Christina, Lexi, Courtney, and Autumn. Beloved sister of Anne Johnston (Walter), Robert Tulipan (Kathy), Irene Forte (Lenney), Thomas…

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Carissa Hanley left a message on December 9, 2015:
Dear Mom (aka Martha Focker), I miss you so much Mom. I still am at a loss for words, even 7 months later. There are no words to describe what losing you feels like. The emotions are baffling to say the least. I wonder if I have even grieved. Don't think I have and if I have then how do I know that I have? When I used to think about death, I would think it was a final parting, if you will... But even though you have passed away I don't feel as though you have left me. I don't feel as though I will never see you again. I'd like to believe that we are connected for all eternity, that you and I have an infinite bond. One that could never be broken given any sort of circumstance or life altering event...even death. You were too important to me to just up and leave. And I know that I was too important to you for u to just up and leave. I don't feel as though you left forever. You and I will forever and infinitely be connected. You are my brave, strong and beautiful mother and I will always be your brave, strong and beautiful "little girl". I love you Mom....but you already know that I That you are weightless, carefree and happy Mom. Given the life that you were dealt, at the very least you deserve that. Please know that I will protect you and hug you again. Our time here on Earth may have run out but I will always see you in my dreams, hold you in my heart and love you eternally. ❌⭕️❌⭕️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Carissa left a message on December 9, 2015:
Dear Mom (aka Martha Focker), I miss you so much Mom. I still am at a loss for words, even 7 months later. There are no words to describe what losing you feels like. The emotions are baffling to say the least. I wonder if I have even grieved. Don't think I have and if I have then how do I know that I have? When I used to think about death, I would think it was a final parting, if you will... But even though you have passed away I don't feel as though you have left me. I don't feel as though I will never see you again. I'd like to believe that we are connected for all eternity, that you and I have an infinite bond. One that could never be broken given any sort of circumstance or life altering event...even death. You were too important to me to just up and leave. And I know that I was too important to you for u to just up and leave. I don't feel as though you left forever. You and I will forever and infinitely be connected. You are my brave, strong and beautiful mother and I will always be your brave, strong and beautiful "little girl". I love you Mom....but you already know that I That you are weightless, carefree and happy Mom. Given the life that you were dealt, at the very least you deserve that. Please know that I will protect you and hug you again. Our time here on Earth may have run out but I will always see you in my dreams, hold you in my heart and love you eternally. ❌⭕️❌⭕️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Carissa left a message on September 5, 2015:
Dear Mom, I miss you so much mom. Today I found out that Corinne passed away. She passed away yesterday after a horrific car accident. Once again, I am forced to realize just how short life is. I don't understand why "God" chooses to "take" these people and I don't understand why "he" chooses to take them in such a horrible way. My mom and Corinne did not deserve to be taken the way they were taken in the first place, let alone at all. I don't understand and I don't believe I ever will...but yet we are taught that "God" is almighty and "he" has his own reasons for doing what he does. It just doesn't seem fair. And it's very hard for me to understand and believe in.
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