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Susan E. O'Donnell, of Port Jefferson, New York, passed away at the age of 81. She was born on September 11, 1944 in St. Louis, MO. Susan lived a life defined by love, compassion, curiosity, and a steadfast devotion to her family and the countless children whose lives she touched.
Susan was the beloved wife of John R. O'Donnell, with whom she shared a lifetime of love, partnership, and treasured memories for 51 years. Susan was the devoted daughter of the late John & Mary Bolles and loving sister of the late Mary Jane Decker. She was the loving Aunt and Great Aunt of many nieces and nephews.
A dedicated teacher at the Andrew Muller Primary School in Miller Place, New York, Susan believed every child deserved patience, encouragement, and the opportunity to discover the joy of learning. She had a remarkable gift for making young students feel safe, confident, and valued. Through her gentle guidance, warm smile, and caring heart, she inspired generations of children and earned the admiration of parents and colleagues alike.
Beyond the classroom, Susan embraced life with an adventurous spirit. She loved to travel, finding joy in exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and creating lasting memories with family and friends. Whether near or far, every journey was an opportunity to learn, laugh, and appreciate the beauty of the world.
Those who knew Susan will remember her for her warmth, quiet strength, generosity, and unwavering kindness. She had a rare ability to make everyone feel welcomed and loved, and her gentle spirit left an enduring mark on all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Her life was a beautiful testament to the power of love, education, and compassion. Though she will be deeply missed, her legacy lives on in the countless lives she enriched through her teaching, her friendships, and her boundless love for others.
May she rest in eternal peace, and may her memory forever be a blessing.
Tuesday, August 4, 2026
2:00 - 7:00 pm (Eastern time)
Moloney’s Port Jefferson Station Funeral Home
Wednesday, August 5, 2026
Starts at 10:00 am (Eastern time)
Riverhead United Methodist Church
Wednesday, August 5, 2026
Starts at 12:30 pm (Eastern time)
St. Charles/Resurrection Cemetery
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